When is he coming!! please don't say soon!!

What I would like to know is when is 2 Peter 3:3,4 applied todays body of the church. If we say we are in the last days, when have you been approach about Christ coming or his promise of his return. It is easy to say certian things must happen frist and avoid the issues about it. When are those things going to happen or even start someday soon you hope. I know someone is going to say who are you to say this. Peter said this 2oooyrs ago and counting! But we say people are dying all around us. The bible says it's nothing "new" under the sun people. So if you like to answer this you may but don't get mad at me i didn't say it Peter did. How would you answer a Jew or muslim about Jesus promises a long time ago about his coming. We can't contiued to say anyday soon this isn't going to work. Also were not being mock because these are not the last days! as many may think. Just to start things off with this I know this will get the blood running.